My general lack of enthusiasm for the Obama campaign has been challenged this week by the news (from a brilliantly reported Washington Post story) that Mitt Romney was a real jerk even back in high school, mercilessly bullying a now-deceased gay classmate, mistreating other students and faculty, and choosing associations – even at the prestigious Cranbrook School – on the basis of family wealth.
The New Yorker‘s Alex Koppelman notes that the same ways in which the story resonates with the distant, uncaring narrative Romney has struggled unsuccessfully to fight are similar to the ways attempts to attach a similar tone to Obama have failed — Obama admits to having eaten dog meat, but there’s no evidence he ever mistreated a dog; he concedes he was cruel to a classmate, but it was when he himself was struggling to fit into a new school.
Romney, on the other hand, says he can’t even recall the incidents specifically.
But it’s getting harder to escape the conclusion that there’s a pattern to Romney’s behavior, that he has a real problem understanding and caring for those with whom he can’t easily identify. As Amy Davidson writes, “This story is resonant because one can, all too easily, see Romney walking away even now, or simply failing to connect, to grasp hurt.” That may or may not be a fair conclusion—we are none of us mind readers—but given what we know about him, it’s certainly a reasonable one.
If it were just this incident, things might be different. Then we could dismiss it as a youthful indiscretion, just another of the standard outrage-baiting campaign moments we’ll all forget soon enough. But there’s a small string of these kinds of things now. We know that when he’s on the trail, Romney has a real problem connecting with ordinary people—or even just talking to them. We know about Seamus the dog, how Romney put him in a crate and strapped it to the roof of the family station wagon for hours of driving. We know that he’s said he likes being able to fire people. (And yes, the comment about firing people has been taken out of context, but he still said it, and without any ear for how it might sound.)
Of course, Obama is still only limply progressive — from his tepid, “personal” embrace of same-sex marriage, to ongoing drone warfare, to actively pushing for new backdoors into online communication — but biography isn’t completely irrelevant in a presidential race.